No man should be in a one-sided relationship because it is emotionally exhausting. I believe that it natural to fall in love as well as fall out of love. Most times, some guys are too caught up in their feelings to notice on time that their lover has emotionally checked out of the relationship. If a girl is no longer in a relationship, the signs are very glaring for any logical guy. Here are the signs:
Short and Delayed Replies
However, if there is a change in the mode of communication from your partner, she is no longer interested in the relationship. When she is giving one-word reply like yes, okay, cool, no etc during communication, she is no longer into you. When she takes longer time to reply your message or acts less enthusiastic to communicate with you, she is done with you. It is time to move on when your energy no longer matches her energy when communicating. She has probably found a new lover.
Frequent Cancelation of Dates
Moreover, when your girlfriend starts canceling dates especially at the eleventh hour and she gives no tangible reasons to you, it is obvious that she is no longer interested in you. When a woman is committed to a relationship, she will want to spend time with her lover. However, when there is repeated pattern of date cancelation from her end, she is no longer into you. Lack of effort from women simply means lack of interest.
Body Language
Furthermore, if a woman has fallen out of love with her lover, the signs will be visible on her body language. Any man who has eyes for details will quickly pick up the signs and move on. Once a woman starts avoiding eye contact with her lover, she is done with him. When a woman is in love with a man, she always fixes her gaze on him. When a woman suddenly enjoys looking at her phone when her lover is talking to her and it becomes a pattern, she no longer cares for him. If a girl begins crossing her arms frequently or avoid body contact when she is talking with her lover, it is a sign that she wants out of the relationship. Women express their feelings through their body language.
Lack of Interest in her Lover’s Affairs
As a matter of fact, when a woman becomes less enthusiastic about her lover’s life, it clearly shows that she is no longer into him. When a lady is genuinely in love with a man, she will always be showing keen interest in his affairs because her future is tied to his own especially if they are married. Every tiny details of his life will matter to her because she cares about him. When she stops asking her lover about his affairs or things like how his day at work went, she is done with him especially if it becomes a pattern.
Spending Less Time with her Lover
When a woman always gives excuses why she is no longer spending much time with her lover, she is over him. It takes efforts for a relationship to grow and lovers must be willing to put in the work. If a lady is less enthusiastic about spending time with lover, that means she no longer enjoys his company. If she is too busy to create time to be with her lover, she is tired of him especially if her excuses are not tenable.
Minimal Affections
One of the signs that a woman is no longer interested in a man is her lack of affection for him. Women are emotional beings, when they are in love, they express it through their emotions. They always tell their lover how they feel about him, they love to kiss, hug, cuddle and even make love to him. When a woman begins to reduce her affection for her lover, that means she is emotionally checking out of the relationship. A woman who is no longer excited to kiss, hug or cuddle her man wants out of the relationship.
Conclusion
It is important that men should be observant in their relationship in order not to be caught off guard by their lover. If a man’s lover is displaying one of these seven signs, he should withdraw his commitment immediately. It is only a matter of time before she calls it quit