8 Types of Women Men Should Think Twice About Committing To

As men journey through life, they are opportune to meet women from different walks of life. Most time, women come with different traits and energies. It is important to note that it is not all of them that are deserving of a man’s time and company. These are the types of women that shouldn’t be in a man’s life.

Energy Vampires

Women who exude toxic and negative vibes everywhere they go are referred to as energy vampires. They come into a man’s life and complicate it with their toxic attitude. Any woman who leaves a man emotionally and mentally exhausted with incessant nagging, quarrel and negative engagement is an energy vampire. All they bring into a man’s life is needless drama and chaos. They are good at escalating benign issues into full blown quarrels. Any who priortises his mental health and peace of mind will do well to excuse himself out of the life of such women.

Frequent Complainers

Any woman who makes a big deal out of everything and complains ceaselessly about issues that don’t matter is not good for men. It is exhausting to be with woman who derives pleasure in complaining about everything around her. Be it weather, her job, colleagues, family etc, if she is always fond of complaining, it is time to reevaluate your relationship with her. For instance, I once dated a lady who complains about everything I do, there was nothing that I did that seem acceptable to her. I quickly broke up with her because I couldn’t cope with her incessant nagging.

One-sided Talker

Stay away from women who love to talk but hardly give room for another person to express themselves. Respectful conversations should be a two-way street. A woman who loves to talk but hardly allow her lover to talk or engage in active listening isn’t a good person to be around with. Such women are very toxic and controlling. A one-sided conversation is capable of leaving the party who had no opportunity to express their thoughts feeling undervalued and disrespected. One-sided talkers are narcissists because everything is all about them, such behaviour make them unappealing to people.

Frequent Competitors

Women who take life as a competition is undesirable to be with. A woman who competes with everyone will never appreciate any achievement of her partner especially if she is yet to attain such feat. Whenever a man shares his achievement with her, instead of her to felicitate with him, she will start looking ways to outdo him or belittle his accomplishment.
Low self esteem and insecurity turn people to become obsessed with competition. A man can’t sustain a healthy relationship with a woman who is obsessed with competition. When a man feels undervalued by his partner, it evokes a feeling of worthlessness in him, no man wants to be with a woman with such energy.

Fair-weather Women

Life is full of ups and downs, twist and turns. A woman who sticks with a man when things are very rosy but bails up on him when things are difficult is not a good woman. Relationship should be built on trust and loyalty. A woman who can’t stick by her lover in his lowest moments shouldn’t break bread with him when things are going on smoothly. Fair-weathered women see relationship as a means to improve their own lives without any consideration to their partner. They don’t invest in a relationship because they are into it for material gains not for any other meaningful purpose. 

Guilt-Tripping Women 

A woman who utilises guilt to as a manipulative tool to achieve her inordinate desires is worse than lucifer. Women who guilt trip people are very toxic and manipulative. They shouldn’t be anywhere around a man who priortises his mental health. A woman who crosses her boundaries and guilt trips her partner for calling her bad behaviour is completely soiled and beyond redemption. Some women will guilt trip a man for failing to meet their needs by making him feel inadequate or irresponsible. Some women will even make their partner to feel bad for living the life that suits him. A man should quietly remove himself from the life of such women before she ruins his health.

Dishonest Women 

A woman who lies effortlessly is not the type of woman that a man should have anything to do with. A woman who lies about big and small things can’t never be trusted. What is the essence of being in a relationship with a woman that one cannot trust? It is emotionally exhausting to spend ample time questioning a woman’s every words and actions because she is very dishonest. A relationship that isn’t built on honesty and mutual respect should be tossed into a garbage bin. 

Ungrateful Women

An ungrateful woman shouldn’t have a place in an innocent man’s life. An ungrateful woman will keep taking from her partner. She won’t stop until she strips him of everything of value that he has. Ungrateful women don’t know when to stop taking or appreciate their partner for the ones that they had received. The worst part of it is that ungrateful women are likely to rubbish their partner if he fails to meet their needs. Ungrateful women are quick to forget the previous benevolence that was shown to them, it is about their immediate needs, hell will freeze over if they are not met. Who want to be with such vultures?

Conclusion 

Men who wants to live a happy, healthy amd peaceful live should stay away from such women. If a woman exhibits one of the aforementioned eight attributes, a wise man should quietly work away from her.