1. Family Background, Tribe, and Culture
Before considering marriage with any woman, it is crucial to thoroughly understand her family background, culture, beliefs, and interests. Many men underestimate the importance of these factors, only to face significant challenges later on. A woman’s upbringing shapes her values and perspectives, making it essential to know where she comes from.
Understanding her family background provides valuable insight into her character and the family you will be marrying into. If she comes from a troubled environment or a family with a negative reputation, ancestral curse, that might be a red flag. Conversely, a positive background can be a good indicator for a successful partnership.
You want to avoid marrying someone whose cultural beliefs and traditional values may become a source of conflict in the future. It is important to be aware if she comes from a toxic home with a history of failed marriages. Often, people carry the influences of their upbringing into their adult lives, so knowing her history is vital.
2. Her Past.
Before you think about marrying a woman, it’s important to dig deep into her past and judge it harshly. A woman’s future with you is often shaped by her past history. If you overlook her past, especially if it includes promiscouseness, living carelessly and committing all kinds of atrocities like a baddie, you will face the consequences later.
To truly understand who she is, you need to explore her past. Speak with people who know her and ask questions that encourage her to share her history without feeling judged. Understanding her past can be as critical as reviewing a prospective employee’s resume.
Don’t be naive by thinking that her past doesn’t matter. It does. Learning about her history can provide valuable insights into what your future together with her will look like.
3. Her Attitude and Character.
The character and attitude of a woman are crucial factors to consider. As a man, it is important to create opportunities and necessary environment for her to demonstrate her true nature, whether positive or negative without being judged or corrected.
If a woman struggles with her feminine energy and shows disrespect, rudeness, or a lack of kindness and care, it’s likely not worth pursuing a relationship. Many men mistakenly believe they can change such behaviors after marriage, only to face disappointment and end up suffering tirelessly.
If she does not meet your standards for a committed relationship, it is wise to let her go, regardless of your feelings for her. Discipline yourself to make choices that prioritize your long-term happiness and well-being.
In conclusion, these three aspects are essential for any man to evaluate before marrying a woman. Make wise choices, and remember that understanding these factors can lead to a more fulfilling partnership.
Stay wise.
Written by Mrfred Putin.
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