Read How Money Reveals The Ugliness Of Women In Relationships.

Money Has A Way Of Revealing The Ugliness of Humans.

True life story.

A colleague of mine, who is an engineer,  helped his girlfriend get interior decoration work with our organization, and after she made money, she dumped him. That’s the harsh reality of some relationship and marriage scenarios.

She made over 3 million naira profit for a job she did in a month. That’s her boyfriend’s salary in a year and some months.

The thing is, she went to an interior decoration school in Lagos and improved her skills by following architects in Lagos. That was the turning point in their relationship and marriage potential.

As the brain behind the design, I wanted to recommend someone since I  can’t collect contracts as a staff.

It was one of the smallest projects, and of course, it was easy to consider a Nigerian for its furnishing.

He approached me and begged me not to give a negative criticism of her status when she arrives for an interview:

“Guy, I want to marry this girl, I want to propose next month.

Guy anything you fit do — I know say you have someone, but please.”

It was an opportunity for him to prove he wanted her progress.

I helped when the boss told me the idea of trying her. Because I wanted a brother’s happiness, I covered up her lapses any time the boss asked me what I thought about her.

The project was in PH, and it was the only design I had done for the organization there.

After the project, she told him her profit and said, “Thank you.”

She ended the call abruptly and sent him a text never to call her again. He was hiding it from me because it would make him look stupid until another female colleague told me.

“No wonder you’ve been avoiding me,” I told him.

Then, I saw a man nearly weeping. After showing me a text where she told him never to call her again, he showed me her other text message, and it was this:

” Thank you for everything. I can’t continue dating you. You can’t even enter a flight to visit me in Lagos. Since I relocated to Lagos 4months ago, I’ve checked it. You’re not the guy for me so find another girl.”

I gave him a deep hug.

My female colleague hugged him too. Relationships and marriage can sometimes be brutally tough.

I gave the lady a call afterward,  and she sincerely told me she could no longer date someone like him.

“Please, is there something he did?” I asked.

” No . I just can’t date someone I earn more than. I still like him o. But I have eyes on better people. This is the first time I am making up to a million and I appreciate him for that. I don send am 100k sha. Send me your account number too.”

” Are you pulling his legs or what?” I asked.

”  I am being true to myself,” she replied.

The saddest part of it all?

As I am typing this,  the young man is in the hospital.  His blood pressure was triggered.

On my way out of the ward, I remembered he sends her 40% of his salary every month. He even handled a certain personal project and sent her 600k at a certain time.

He’s the type of Boyfriend that deserves a medal because I remember having told him not to send her money for long and see her reaction. He exclaimed, ” I just can’t.” He’s having a rough time now and hasn’t sent her money in two months. Could this be the reason? Such dynamics often mark the end of their relationship and marriage aspirations.

I think some humans don’t even deserve hell — the Devil’s punishment will be too mild for them — if it exists. There should be another place for more terrible humans.

In all your dealings, try to surround yourself with kind people. Sometimes, ask God to reveal the true nature of the person you’re dating.

May we never build fruitless relationships, end up with heartless people and sacrifices for people who are undeserving of it. A healthy relationship and marriage should be built on mutual respect and trust.

Amen.

if you upgrade a woman more than yourself, she will dump you for another man for a man who upgraded himself and not another woman.

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Written By Edward Amah