Narcissism refers to personality attributes that focus on too much attention on oneself. A narcissist displays excessive love and attention on themselves. A narcissist woman has an inflated sense of importance, she wants to be the center of attention at all times and she will go a great length to display her bloated egoism. A narcissistic woman is suffering from a psychological condition called Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Here are the traits of a narcissistic woman:
Bloated Sense of Importance
A narcissistic woman thinks too highly of herself. She feel like she is better than others. She sees everyone as beneath her. If she is good looking, she spares no chance to brag about her beauty, she doesn’t mind rubbing her beauty in the face of everyone that she comes across with.
She always brags about her accomplishments. She always talks about her academic or career achievements. She has a knack of inserting her achievements into random conversations.
Craves for Validation
A narcissistic woman loves being admired by others. She lives for validation from others and she will go a great length to get attention from people especially guys. A narcissistic woman always uploads pictures on social media with the hope of being validated by people. If the validation comes, her ego swells up. Her ego is badly battered whenever she gets little or no validation for other people.
Sense of Entitlement
One unique trait of a narcissistic woman is her crazy sense of entitlement. A narcissistic woman feels entitled to the money, gifts and perks of her lover without doing anything to earn it. For instance, a narcissistic woman wants her lover to meet her needs because she is beautiful, she feels entitled to the goodwill of her boyfriend without putting in the work. She enters into a relationship with certain expectations from her significant other. When her expectations are not met, she feels undervalued or unloved by her lover and resorts to name calling or guilt-tripping.
Exploitation
A narcissistic woman is very skilled in the art of exploiting and manipulating people for her selfish gains. She looks for the slightest chance to exploit people without any sense of remorse. A narcissistic woman sees relationship as purely transactional and she is willing to opt out of any relationship that she isn’t benefitting monetary from. She equates love with money. For example, a narcissistic woman wants her lover to be taking care of her bills without even considering his pocket. If he isn’t ready to take over her responsibilities, she walks out of his life claiming he doesn’t love her. Her love is for sale. 90% of modern women are narcissists.
Absence of Empathy
One important feature of a narcissistic woman is her lack of empathy. A narcissistic woman only cares about herself and emotions. That is all that matters to her, she cares very little about the needs or feelings of her lover. She doesn’t care about the welfare of her lover, all that matters to her is that he meets her needs.
A narcissistic woman invest nothing in a relationship but expect her lover to provide for her. If he fails to do according to her biddings due to financial constraints, she walks away.
Obsession with her Beauty
A narcissistic woman is highly obsessed with how she looks, she goes through a great deal of stress to maintain a great appearance. She is obsessed with how people see her. She loves hanging out with high profile individuals just to boost her status. For examples, a narcissistic woman physically alters her body through cosmetic surgeries like liposuction in order to remain beautiful. For a narcissistic woman, it is all about her physical appearance and less about her mental attributes.
Arrogance and Superiority
A narcissistic woman moves around with an aura of superiority complex. She feels that she is better than everyone else and she displays it when relating with others. She has a penchant of belittling or undervaluing people especially her lover through her words, actions and inactions.
Fragile Self-Esteem
A narcissistic woman’s self esteem is very fragile despite her overt display of bloated ego and confidence. Her sense of self-esteem is punctured when her behaviour is subjected to scrutiny by others. Her self-esteem is inflated by the validation that she enjoys from other people especially guys. When such validation ceases, she recoils back into her shell because her self esteem has taken a hit.
Criticism and rejection are ways of deflating the self esteem of a narcissistic woman. She gets angry and start throwing tantrums whenever her self esteem has been battered.
Difficulty with Relationships
A narcissistic woman finds it extremely difficult to sustain a healthy and long-lasting relationship as a result of her egoism, selfishness and lack of empathy. Most men who enter her life quickly opt out because of the emotional abuse that she dishes out to them. A narcissistic woman gets dumped by men after realizing that her affections are purely transactional.
Manipulative and Controlling
A narcissistic woman is highly skilled in manipulation, lies and gaslighting. She uses the aforementioned skills as tools to control her lover. She makes her lover to doubt his reality, isolate him from his family and friends in order to be able to control every aspect of his life. She uses manipulation and control for her selfish reasons. It is all about her desires and nothing more.
Lastly, it is important for guys to know these traits about narcissistic women. It will help them to make informed decisions before entering into a relationship with a woman. If a woman displays any one of aforementioned traits, walk away from her before she emotionally abuses you with her narcissistic behaviour. Stay vigilant.
Narcism is a very bad trait then. No sane person can cope with such a woman if he wants to make headway or live long and healthy.
Words of wisdom.