When we say men should not marry poor women and women from extremely poor backgrounds, many men will think we are joking.
Let’s use this popular actor, Emeka Ike, as a case study among many men who have suffered from a similar faith.
Emeka Ike is a popular, sensational Nollywood Nigerian actor doing very well for himself and in his craft; he came into the limelight and dominated the industry very well.
The Gentleman made a lot of money and made himself a reputable name.
But then, when he wanted to get married, he went straight to pick a woman from a very poor background, a woman with no educational background, a woman suffering in the village, a woman who had never seen or touched good money before; he became her savior and that of her family.
What did he do?
He married her.
He sent her to school.
Gave her a signatory to his property.
Gave her fame and the spotlight.
Established business for her.
Help lift her family out of abject poverty.
He did all this out of love; a man who doesn’t love a woman will never give the woman this kind of life and access to his resources.
Guess what happened… She turned on him and became his worst enemy, destroyed his reputation, confiscated his properties because he also made her a co-owner out of love, ended his career, instigated a war between him and his children, etc.
This is a woman saved from abject poverty destroying the life of her savior after she has been saved.
Ask Emeka Ike what his greatest regret in life is today and he will tell you, marrying a poor woman.
This is just an example of millions of men’s experiences with women.
As a man.
If you have suffered and made wealth and become rich, don’t ever entertain the thought of marrying a poor woman from a poor background hoping to change her life.
It will never end well for you.
Poor women don’t love rich men, they only love using rich men to become rich and end up dumping them.
Ask Elon Musk, Bill Gates, and Jeff; they have experienced this thing firsthand.
Forget that humility and submission at first, it’s a trap, and again, it’s because she’s still poor and still wants to win your heart and trust; the moment she wins it and becomes your mistress, you will learn the hard way.
Its just a matter of time before you know who you truly marry.
Unless you both are poor from the onset and you start dating and building together, then you can marry her, but if you find success on your own, please go out of your way and choose a woman who is doing well for herself, coming from a wealthy family.
Don’t be f00led, no poor woman has love to give you, and again, they have nothing to lose when the relationship ends.
It’s always the poor women who monetize love, relationships, and marriage more than the well-to-do women.
Be wise.
There are a lot of lessons to learn here.
If you marry the wrong woman, it will affect every aspect of your life… trust me.
The End
Writing by MrFred Putin.
Of all the truths and advices I have heard in this world, this is the only one that I have to learn the hard way. The worst of it is that I can’t even change it, because we already have kids. I love my kids. Sending their mother away will affect them.
I need an advice, what should I do? This formerly humble and sexy lady is now wasteful, abusive, naggy, disrespectful etc.
I feel my hands are tied.
Please any advice for me?
Of all your posts, this particular one got me stunned to my bone marrow.
Much love sir.